Dreams

I'm in the town where my grandparents lived when I was a child (they are now deceased), and I have the feeling I'm visiting for nostalgia's sake. I want to take photographs of the place. I'm very excited and happy to be there, and happier still that I have a baby (mine, newborn, a girl) all dressed up in pink and snug as a bug in her baby carriage (an old fashioned pram with huge wheels). As I walk around the town, I realize I've gotten lost and I have no idea where I'm supposed to go next. I make several stops to see old friends (who I don't recognize) and wind up in the apartment of someone I knew when I was young who grew up to be a local policeman. He is handsome, well spoken, well-liked (the phone keeps ringing while I'm there). He solves the problem for me. Knows where I'm supposed to be and calls me a cab. The dream colours are mostly black, white and pink.

In another (related?) dream, I find myself in an institution, like a retirement home, except it's for adults like me. It is set up with all the things one might want to do - knitting, cooking, beading, reading, writing, pottery, etc., but all these things are not available for the moment because of all the snow. There are notices at each 'station' in the institution that house each particular hobby or activity. I am disappointed, but excited that eventually, all these options will be open to me.

3 comments:

  Cygnus MacLlyr

February 21, 2009 3:10 PM

First dream, the telephone ringing... are you fearing someone will take Mr. Policeman off the market before you decide whether or not you want to?
New baby, and at the ancestor's home (or city). Nostalgia is right, but also a link to the past and future (the grandparents and baby) and the need to know your line continues.

New baby and being lost-- all new parents are, and this is symbolic of the syndrome-- "What am I gonna do with THIS?" [the baby]. Mr. Police knowing where you need to be or go-- you want help in rearing the child, more secure in having two to navigate the ship [ain't that life!]. Lucky Mr Right, I'd say...

Pink... I rarely remember colors from the arms of Morpheus, but since one stood out in this dream, I'm going to say you'd really like a baby girl...

I have no idea if this entire subject has been on your mind or life plans of late. Why the dreams come ain't my bent... but usually they are some indication of mental activity, if only unconscious.

Just watch for a gecko or lizard on the wall. The oven is reserved by said sign...[Hawaiin Lore. Hey, I didn't believe either. Until my son was born..!]

Hope I've not muddied the water too much..

C.

  DarklyFey

February 21, 2009 3:31 PM

No, you haven't muddied the waters, but you have proven why I think it's important that we interpret our own dreams and not depend on others to do it for us.

The policeman is an aspect of self - my Animus, who I have a relationship with already from spiritual work in other areas. He is a part of my personality that manages well in whatever situation I find myself in. The baby girl is my Shadow - an aspect of self that feels helpless and vulnerable. I recently came to terms with the fact that as a result of childhood trauma, I have not really grown up and a part of me feels dependent and powerless. I am happy about the baby in the dream because I am *recognizing my need for further growth* and I have reclaimed that tender, vulnerable self. I may be lost consciously, but there are allies within me (Animus, friends I visit) who know how to get where I want to go.

Pink, for me, means love and tenderness, so the baby being swathed in pink symbolizes a renewed ability to love those parts of myself that I abandoned.

I have no conscious desire to have more kids (I'm 40 - way done with childbearing/rearing) but I do have a desire to progress in my personal individuation process.

I interpret dreams from a Jungian perspective - every character and feature of the dream represents aspects of self, or conscious or unconscious attitudes.

  Cygnus MacLlyr

February 24, 2009 12:57 AM

you're so right.. no one knows our self more than we do.

Lest I knew more of your personal life, I couldn't begin to tacle something so ambiguous and personal as subconscious imagery...

Good to see you have such a deep connection to your'n.

Thought about the child-bearing/age aspect @ work today, so coulda guessed more of my bent was off...

'S why I don't like the dream interp. books! HA!

Thanks for listening, Fey...